Have you ever realised a world without moms...u cant and can ever will coz there will be no world without her...there is not a soul who has not uttered the word mom and there is not comparitive feeling to that...
She is a godess whom you can speak to your heart out and she will forgive the grossest of mistakes...she will go thru hell and still make sure you get what you want...still feel that may be she could have done more for you...
But you may not exactly feel the same for her...coz there is no comparision to the feelin a mom has for her kids...
Even when the kids leave her deserted in her old age (when she needs them da most) she doesnt blame them...instead believes that they may have some dire problems bcoz of which he/she has taken that decision...in short she cannot even think of holding them gulity
But what happens when she leaves us forever...a child attached to his/her mom doesnt even want to think of such a situation in a normally led life...
But there comes a phase in life where few ill fated souls have to go thru this...and thats the time you actually realise how important she is in your life...you start recollectin the fun filled days with her...days wen she played with u...scolded u...loved u...beat u...hugged u...laughed at ur stupid jokes...cried with u..for u...protected u...shouldered u...supported u...carried u...shored u...sheltered u...da list goes on...an so do da memories...
I think more than the child, its the spouse who goes thru more pain and trauma durin this phase...coz he is the one who has been with her more than anyone else...
God Bless all those souls who go thru this and may Lord give them enough strength to withstand the ordeal!!!
She is a godess whom you can speak to your heart out and she will forgive the grossest of mistakes...she will go thru hell and still make sure you get what you want...still feel that may be she could have done more for you...
But you may not exactly feel the same for her...coz there is no comparision to the feelin a mom has for her kids...
Even when the kids leave her deserted in her old age (when she needs them da most) she doesnt blame them...instead believes that they may have some dire problems bcoz of which he/she has taken that decision...in short she cannot even think of holding them gulity
But what happens when she leaves us forever...a child attached to his/her mom doesnt even want to think of such a situation in a normally led life...
But there comes a phase in life where few ill fated souls have to go thru this...and thats the time you actually realise how important she is in your life...you start recollectin the fun filled days with her...days wen she played with u...scolded u...loved u...beat u...hugged u...laughed at ur stupid jokes...cried with u..for u...protected u...shouldered u...supported u...carried u...shored u...sheltered u...da list goes on...an so do da memories...
I think more than the child, its the spouse who goes thru more pain and trauma durin this phase...coz he is the one who has been with her more than anyone else...
God Bless all those souls who go thru this and may Lord give them enough strength to withstand the ordeal!!!
7 comments:
Nice start.
Happy blogging!!
Good one, keep going dear :-)
hope god empties his strength bag on your family,
take care.
your words touch my soul n made me cry..my tough lioness..take care!
Hello
Reminds me of the song
"Uyirum Neeye, Udalum Neeye, Unarvun neeye , Thaye!
"Antha udalil sumanthu, uyirai pagirnthu, uruvam tharuvai neeye
Un kannil vazhiyum oru thuli pothum, kadalum muzhugum thaye
Un kaaladi mattum tharuvaai thaye, sorgam enbathu poyye
Vinnai padaithan, mannai padaithaan, Katrum mazhayum veyilum padaithaan
Bhoomikku athanaal, nimmathi illai,
Saami thavithan, Thayai padaithan!
Roughly translates as
You are my soul, your are my body you are my sense, my dear Mother
You shared a part of your soul with me by bearing me in your body and giving me a form
A drop of tear in your eye is enough to fill my seas,
Just give me a place at your feet, any other heaven doesnt exist
The god made the sky, he made the earth, he made the wind, the rain and the sunshine
but the earth wasnt peaceful still ,
This troubled teh good lord and i guess that is why he made a mother!
Cheers
Jaiku
I blog at http:// aiyeratthegatesofdawn.sulekha.com
and
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hey, thats nice.
I read the contents of your articles about AMMA. I agree to most of them.They describe love and respect of each one for other. Having said all this, I am tempted to add my own recent experience of loosing parents in less than one year gap. I was lucky to have them both blessing and loving me for 61 years of my life.Now I think I have to be more like them to my offsprings and all around to show love of parents. And then forgetting them is more a remembering them!
Dr Bharat Desai, Bilimora
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